Archive for March, 2009
Body language- The hidden communication Skills…
Posted by: | Comments
body language
body language is one of the hidden communication skills...
Most times you’re not even aware of the hidden messages that you’re body language is sending, though you’ll probably notice the effect that it has on others.
So what is body language and why is it important ?
Go here to discover more http://www.topcommunicationskills.com/communication-skills/body-language-an-introduction-to-the-power-within-2
The Definitive Book of Body Language
Posted by: | CommentsThe Definitive Book of Body Language
Radical Bear Hunter Book
Posted by: | Comments
Radical strategies for hunting the elusive and challenging black bear Detailed guide to bear biology and population information, including where to find monster bears and color-phase bears Book has essential bear country tips, including staying safe, field-judging trophy bears, and reading bear body language along with a complete rundown of North American bear hunting hotspots The black bear population has exploded, and as their numbers increase, so do hunting opportunities. Twenty-eight states now offer black bear seasons, and much of Canada boasts healthy, huntable bear populations. Radical Bear Hunter presents innovative approaches to give hunters an edge for success. Included is valuable biological information, tips for reading bear sign and determining a trophy, as well as proven strategies for baiting bears, hunting with hounds, spotting and stalking, and setting up scouting cameras. Hunters learn how to choose the right outfitter, or if they prefer, how to coordinate a do-it-yourself hunt. Scorzafava recounts his favorite bear hunts and shares some hair-raising close calls–radical experiences that will resonate with would-be adventurers. About the Author: Dick Scorzafava has spent a lifetime studying and hunting black bears. He serves as a staff writer for Bear Hunting magazine and is also the author of Radical Bowhunter. He lives in Westfield, Massachusetts.
Howard Lederer: “Tells” All
Posted by: | Comments
World-famous poker player Howard Lederer tells all in this video designed to teach the basics of No-Limit Texas Hold ‘Em. As he teaches players the basics of the game — along with tips on when to hold ‘em and when to fold ‘em — he focuses on reading your opponent’s body language in order to figure out his next move and what his hand could be. This video will prepare you for a night of poker with a group of friends or at a table in a Vegas casino.
Complete Relaxation – Audio Book CD by Denise Linn
Posted by: | Comments
html head meta http-equiv=’Content-Language‘ content=’en-us’ meta http-equiv=’Content-Type’ content=’text/html; charset=windows-1252′ meta name=’GENERATOR’ content=’Microsoft FrontPage 5.0′ meta name=’ProgId’ content=’FrontPage.Editor.Document’ /head body bgcolor=’#F9E4AF’ !– ST_SEAL_HTML_END — p align=’left’ style=’margin-top: 0; margin-bottom: 0′ strong font face=’Trebuchet MS’ Being In Balance /font /strong /p p align=’left’ style=’margin-top: 0; margin-bottom: 0′ i font face=’Trebuchet MS’ size=’2′ 9 Principles for Creating Habits to Match Your Desires /font /i /p p align=’left’ font face=’Trebuchet MS’ size=’2′ Read by the Author nbsp;Dr. Wayne W. Dyer /font /p p align=’left’ font face=’Trebuchet MS’ size=’2′ 2 CDs New – Unabridged – Approx. 2 Hrs. /font /p p align=’left’ style=’margin-top: 0; margin-bottom: 0′ font face=’Trebuchet MS’ size=’2′ Hay House – September, 2006 /font /p p align=’left’ style=’margin-top: 0; margin-bottom: 0′ font face=’Trebuchet MS’ size=’2′ ISBN – 10: 1401910718 /font /p p align=’left’ style=’margin-top: 0; margin-bottom: 0′ font face=’Trebuchet MS’ size=’2′ ISBN – 13: 978-140190716 /font /p p align=’left’ font face=’Trebuchet MS’ size=’2′ In this inspirational work, i New York Times /i best-selling author and lecturer Wayne W. Dyer shows you how to restore balance in your life by offering nine principles for realigning your thoughts so that they correspond to your highest desires. br br Imagine a balance scale with one end weighted down to the ground, and the other end featuring the objects of your desires sticking up precariously in the air. This scale is a measurement of your thoughts. To restore the same balance that characterizes everything in our universe, you have to take up the weighty thoughts so that they match up to your desires. br br The seasons reflect the overall harmony of life. For example, winter
Human Body 2-3
Posted by: | Comments
Carson-Dellosa Publishing Company,Paperback, English-language edition,Pages:128,Pub by Carson-Dellosa Publishing Company, Incorporated
Tips on Cunnilingus, Fellatio and Orgasms!
Posted by: | Comments
Sex, women, men… Sex, orgasms, feelings… Sex, cunnilingus,
fellatio…Cuddles!
I have had many men request that I give them more information
on exactly what women like in the sex, and feelings department.
OK, well I will do what I do best, just simply share what my
thoughts on these subjects are. Take them or leave them!
There are so many sites out there that are about dating,
relationships, how to score, how to win, and yet men are still
looking for answers. Why is that? Maybe it`s because not every
answer fits every women! That may be your first hint guys. We
are all different, what works on one women will make another
women slap your face with disgust. So I would think that a good
thing to do is to just chat a bit with the lady and get to know
the side of her that she is willing to show you. Hopefully you
are smart enough to listen to her, and learn as she talks. Oh,
and please save the checking out her boobs or her butt until
after you have won the first battle.
I truly believe men are so quickly blinded by our physical
protrusions (wink) that they immediately lose their focus at
first base. Guys, the body parts are not going anywhere. Have
some class and be patient. OK, enough about that very somber
subject. I will leave that for another show, as they say.
Women’s feelings, as most men have already experienced are
nothing to joke about. Women are sensitive creatures and at the
same time very strong. Those two characteristics are nothing
short of explosive. The beneficial side to these hard to deal
with emotions is that women are just as equally passionate and
loving towards the male gender. It is our passion that fuels our
desires to be wanted by men. We send off certain signals that
entice and attract men. Women know exactly how to win a mans
heart. Remember, we are the more sensitive feeling being, of the
two genders. We also deal with hormones that turn us into
monsters one minute and little tiny babies in another. Our
feelings are usually on the top of our skin. That’s why we get
hurt so much easier than men. We are child bearers, and that
instinctively causes us to be more cautious and rely on our
intuitions more than facts. So guys , please forgive us for
being the more feeling human. Do not hate us for it, or get
frustrated with us, but love us and know that for all the pain
we share, we also share twice as much pleasure. That brings me
to my next thought!
Sex, that is definitely a good thought not to mention a very
fun act between men and women. Women love to be touched, and
felt. She wants to feel your hands on her body. It is a very
important physical connection that sends messages to her most
intimate senses. When a man touches a woman’s body, she feels
wanted, she feels lusted, she feels craved, but most of all she
feels SEXY! Her self-esteem will ROAR! That my dear sweet men,
is exactly the point you want her at. You want her to feel SEXY!
Women do vary with having their breasts played with. This
should be done gently at first, so to not turn her off. Some
women love a very passionate kiss. A passionate kiss can be an
instant orgasm. Women love to feel the sensation of your breathe
on thier skin. That will surely send her to a new level of
sensations. Women have very sensitive backs. A women’s spine
will tingle with the slightest touch of your finger tips. Kiss
her shoulders, please. Kiss her belly! Kiss her thighs, that is
another very sweet spot for women! Kiss her between her legs!
She will be warm already, anticipating the sensation of your
tongue! It is a very sweet way to taste the women that you
desire! She will feel that much more open to you, knowing that
you want every part of her body! Women`s bodies have so many
sensations that it does take them a bit more time to get them to
have an orgasm. The more sensations that you can get a women to
feel, the higher she will go into her orgasm zones. Spend time
tasting her, never rush her. Also please no not wear out just
one spot. Women know there good spots, ask her to tell you what
feels good. Be patient though, women do have a harder time
talking about sex. Listen to her moans, read her body language,
feel her wetness. All these are signs being sent to you. That’s
a plus for you also. The more orgasmic a women feels, the more
adventurous she will be when it is you she wants to devour.
Remember, to tell her how SEXY she is and how sweet she tastes!
Let her know how good she feels to you. Let her know that she is
driving you crazy. Women also love to know that for sure. When
men are quiet during sex, women feel that they are not exciting
or sexy. Women need to hear that men want them and want to
please them. When women feel they are wanted, that in turn makes
them want to please their man. HMMM! Where do you think my
thoughts are going now?
MHM!! Women also love to please their men. They know that men
crave fellatio, better know to most as ,”Blow-jobs”. (SMilz) Yes
guys we know, we know. Women read more that you can imagine how
just how to give their guy the best BJ. There are just as many
books out there and sites on the internet about that as there
are about how to please a woman. My hint to all the women
wondering out there is…PRACTICE!!!! Body language from your
man is a must to watch for. Not all men are the same. Some men
are more sensitive in some areas that others. Just as women are
also on different levels of sensations when it comes to oral
sex. Another good tip ladies is your thoughts at the time of the
Bj. Think sex. Think wet.Think suction. Think warm. Think HIM!!
Love him!! But most of all suck him like you want it. The more
he feels that you are just absolutely crazy for it, the more
intense it is for him. Do not be afraid of what you are doing.
You cannot hurt him unless you bite. That’s a NO! NO!…. DO NOT
BITE or SCRAPE!
Don`t be afraid to ask him how it feels, or
if there is anything more you can do to please him.
Communication, as in anything, is important in sex. It is after
all, something that we want to enjoy with one another. Also we
learn more about each other through sharing our physical
desires. Ladies another very huge turn on for your man is when
he sees you feel SEXY! When a man sees his woman sexy, confident
and open to him, it will totally send him over the edge of lust
for you. So lets get SEXY!
When all is said and done, Cuddles is a biggie. We need to
cuddle. It reassures us that everything was perfect. It’s kind
of like the icing on the cake. It bonds us on another level of
communication. Some women and men have their best conversations
when they cuddle. It is almost like a surrender of weapons.
Well these are my thoughts on this. I hope I have not offended
anyone. I know this is a different subject than what you are use
to reading. But I am human also, just like you. Also I wanted to
show a little attitude of a different color for my readers.
Enjoy life and enjoy all of it benefits.
We only get but one shot at it.
Men and Women were made to enjoy each other.
So just do it!
_Doroth
Bible or Quran: Which Encourages or Eradicates Racism?
Posted by: | Comments
Racism is one of the ruthless problems of human being.
This article illustrates that the Bible put the roots of Racism and encourages it while the Quran eradicated this cruel crisis.
The Bible encourages Racism:
The Bible is very fascinated with the races of the people.
In the Bible we can read this word “my people” in 220 verses.
In 35 verses we have “my people; Israel” as for example:
2 Samuel 3:18
“Now do it! For the LORD promised David, ‘By my servant David I will rescue my people Israel from the hand of the Philistines and from the hand of all their enemies.”
In two verses we have “my people; the Israelites” as for example:
Exodus 3:10
“So now, go. I am sending you to Pharaoh to bring my people the Israelites out of Egypt.”
Many verses in the Bible consider the other nations as valueless and should be exterminated as for example:
Exodus 23:27-30
“I will send my terror ahead of you and throw into confusion every nation you encounter. I will make all your enemies turn their backs and run. 28 I will send the hornet ahead of you to drive the Hivites, Canaanites and Hittites out of your way. 29 But I will not drive them out in a single year, because the land would become desolate and the wild animals too numerous for you. 30 Little by little I will drive them out before you, until you have increased enough to take possession of the land.”
In these verses God will drive the Hivites, Canaanites and Hittites out of the way of his people. But not in one year, because “the land would become desolate and the wild animals too numerous for his people.”
Also, in Exodus 33:2
“I will send an angel before you and drive out the Canaanites, Amorites, Hittites, Perizzites, Hivites and Jebusites.”
And, in Exodus 34:24
“I will drive out nations before you and enlarge your territory, and no one will covet your land when you go up three times each year to appear before the LORD your God.”
Nevertheless, in Isaiah 19:25
“The LORD Almighty will bless them, saying, “Blessed be Egypt my people, Assyria my handiwork, and Israel my inheritance.”
This is the only time in the Bible to say “Egypt my people”
It follows that the Bible is very interested in the races of people.
And the two favorite races are Israel (37 times) and Egypt (only once).
On the other hand, the Bible sorts out other races like the Canaanites, Amorites, Hittites, Perizzites, Hivites and Jebusites as inferior. However, the Bible gives no idea about the reason to classify those races like dirt!
In addition, many American Christians In the 19th century were taught that Africans, were descendents of Ham (son of Noah), and thus deserved to be slaves. This was based on the story of Noah and his sons in Genesis 9
Everyone memorizes how black Africans were transported across the oceans, crammed in special ships, and treated like livestock. They were: 1) made slaves, 2) enforced to change their religion, names and language, 3) were not entitled to hope for true freedom, and 4) were repudiated the least of human rights.
Still some Western white people think they are the superior and their native black people are inferiors.
Arabs practiced Racism before Islam:
Before Islam, the Arabs practiced racism very much, under the name of tribalism that was prevalent in “Makka”.
Mohammad’s tribe “Quraysh” put themselves at the top of the Arabs in general and superior to all the other peoples of the world.
Mohammad came with the heavenly Message and declared that no Arab is superior over a non-Arab, and no white is superior over black and superiority is by righteousness and God-fearing alone
This established in the hearts and minds that superiority is not by birth or color or blood, but by Allah-fearing and righteousness.
This is firmly expressed in the Qur’an, when Allah explains the reason for our variety as different races and peoples:
“O’ mankind, We have created you from a male and a female, and made you into nations and tribes so that you may know one another. Indeed the most honorable of you in the sight of Allah is the one with the most piety”
(The Quran 49:13).
The Prophet (saws) said: “Indeed there is no excellence for an Arab over a non-Arab, nor a non-Arab over an Arab, nor a White person over a Black one, nor a Black person over a White one, except through piety”.
A statement like this tells us that this man, Mohammed, was truly a receiver of heavenly inspiration. His words were not blank like the words of so many leaders today. Rather, he was always the first to lead by example, and this is why we find that during his lifetime so many different types of people accepted Islam. From amongst the Prophet’s friends we find that he had an Ethiopian companion named “Bilal”.
Bilal had been a slave before he accepted Islam, and as a result his position in Arabian society was worse than the animals. However, when he converted to Islam Bilal was given a status like no Black slave had been given before. He was given the immense honor of being the first person to call the “Azan” (call to prayer) in Islam’s magnificent history. More outstandingly however, he was accepted as an equal and a brother by the Prophet and his companions.
Mohammad eradicated the problem of racial or color discrimination so successfully that, for example, “Omar” the second famous Ruler in Islam once said about Bilal: “Bilal” is our master”
This was one of the reasons of the spread of Islam to every corner of the known world.
Thus Blacks, Whites, Arabs, Indians, Malays and all other races: are truly united by worshipping their Creator. This unity is not only restricted to the prayer, but to the whole of ones life, to the extent that Muslims try to fall under the saying of their beloved Prophet who said:
“The example of the believers in their mutual love and mercy is like the example of a body; if one part of the body feels pain, then all the body suffers in sleeplessness and fever “.
Another observance which has helped so many to eradicate racism from their lives, is the Hajj (pilgrimage to Makka), which is obligatory upon every Muslim at least once in a lifetime. The Hajj brings together the peoples of the world, all at one time of the year, in one place.
The Hajj to “Makka” is an experience to see people belonging to different colors, races and nationalities, kings, heads of states and ordinary men from very poor countries all dressed in simple white sheets praying to Allah without any sense of either pride or inferiority. It is a practical manifestation of the concept of equally in Islam.
Islam and Racism against other religions?
The peoples of other faiths have always enjoyed religious toleration under Islam; when the Jews were being persecuted in the rest of Europe, they found freedom and sanctity in Muslim Spain. Their historians regard that as one of their Golden Eras.
This was due to the Islamic teachings:
“Say: We believe In Allah, and in what Has been revealed to us And what was revealed To Abraham, Ishmael; Isaac, Jacob, and the tribes, And in (the Books) Given to Moses, Jesus, And the Prophets, From their Lord: We make no distinction Between one and another Among them and to God do we Bow our will( in Islam).”
The Quran 3:84
“Verily, those who believe (in the Quran) And those who follow the Jewish( scriptures) And the Christians and the Sabians, Any who believe in God And the Last Day, And work righteousness Shall have their reward With their Lord; on them Shall be no fear, nor shall they grieve.”
The Quran 2:62
“Let there be no compulsion in matters of religion: Truth stands out clear from Error: whoever rejects Evil and believes in Allah hath grasped the most trustworthy hand-hold, that never breaks. And Allah heareth and knoweth all things. “
The Quran 2:256
“And among His Signs Is the creation of the heavens And the earth, and the variations In your languages And your colors; verily In that are Signs For those who know.”
The Quran 30:22
The last Prophet Mohammed said:
“Allah is to be praised and thanked for ridding us of the vices and pride of the days of ignorance. O People! Note that all men( the noun includes women as well) are divided in two categories only: the pious and God-fearing who are estimable in Allah’s reckoning, and the transgressors and hard-hearted, who are lowly and contemptible in the eye of Allah.”
“O Mankind! Most certainly, it is We( God almighty) who have
Created you all From a single (pair) Of a male and a female, And it is we who Have made you into Nations and tribes, That ye may recognize each other (Not that ye may despise each other). Verily, the noblest of you In the sight of Allah Is (he who is) the most Righteous of you.”
“All men (includes women) are equal in Islam, the Arab has no superiority over the non-Arab, nor does the non-Arab have superiority over the Arab, save in the fear of God.”
In conclusion:
We have noticed that the Bible is interested in races and classifies the races into superior and inferior. In addition, the Bible encouraged the “Colorism”.
On the other hand, Islam is not a racist religion, nor does it preach racism. The disappearance of race awareness as between Muslims is one of the exceptional accomplishment of Islam, and in the modern world there is, as it happens, a crying need for the transmission of this Islamic benefit.”
Effective Customer Communication
Posted by: | Comments
Organizations are open dynamic systems for transforming resource inputs into saleable outputs (goods & services). They are created to provide useful products and services that satisfy the needs of customers and provide value to stakeholders. But the interests of various stakeholders (whether employees, customers, suppliers, or stakeholders) are not always aligned. This places conflicting pressures and demand on managers.
To maintain organizational viability, managers seek to navigate competitive environmental forces and work to achieve goals in the areas of productivity, satisfaction, and revitalization. One of the realities of life in organizations is that today’s effective practices are not likely to suffice tomorrow. Whether pulled by the success of growth or jolted by crisis and downturn, managers must periodically transform the system to adapt to environmental realities. In the process of transformation, managers can target changes in the key internal resources such as tasks, technology, organization, people, and culture. Maintaining a dynamic balance among these resources is what human resources management is all about. Particularly, in order to analyze the changes that occur to an organization’s strategy, structure, and culture, due to consumer demand, the human resource management communication framework becomes the dominant tool.
Effective communication is essential for transmitting directives, building co-operation and team spirit, optimizing performance and satisfaction, and avoiding and solving problems. Formal communication channels flow in downward, upward, and horizontal directions. Informal networks, essential for any contemporary business unit, are extremely useful as the need to tap into current feelings and reactions of employees, apart of customers, is evident. Thus, messages need to be encoded carefully so that they clearly communicate intentions, feelings, and expectations. Then these should be sent through the most appropriate channels, and feedback should be solicited from the receiver to be sure that the message was decoded as intended.
Such barriers as frames of reference, value judgments, selective listening, filtering and distrust complicate the internal and external communication systems of companies. They can be overcome by sending clear, complete, and specific messages. Demonstrating expertise, clarifying intentions, being reliable and dynamic can enhance credibility, exhibiting warmth and friendliness, and building a positive image. Soliciting and providing specific feedback can also enhance communication effectiveness.
One of the most important consumer satisfaction elements is the ability to ask questions and being able to receive appropriately answers from company executives. Gaining information, uncovering motives, giving incentives, obtaining participation, checking understanding, initiating the thinking process, inducing agreements, and refocusing attention, are all essential components of an effective consumer communication plan. Thus, employees’ active listening skills assist a company to build rapport with customers and help them obtain the relevant information they need.
Moreover, body language is useful both in reading the emotions and attitudes of customers and in reinforcing an employee’s verbal messages. Understanding vocal qualities can enhance the reading of other people’s messages by a company’s employees and help them to project their own, more effectively.
Concluding, due to the growing complexity and turbulence of the business environment and the related growth in research knowledge about customer behavior patterns, managers of the 21st century have to take four themes as paramount; the necessity of managing the challenges of change; functioning within a global environment; being sensitive to the diversity among people; and behaving with ethical integrity.
How To Master Your Body Language And Seduce Men Easier
Posted by: | Comments
While all of us practice a certain form of body language unwillingly and unconsciously, there is quite a big step from regular to expert body language. You can never hear enough body language tips because, for any woman, pose, gestures and posture are essential in the dating game and in life, in general. The subtleties of body language can help you attract the right guy to a higher extent than any form of talking.
Eye contact
The human body has a central point for focusing actions and intentions – the eyes. In modern society, eye contact is of utmost importance, so many body language tips focus on getting this right. Sidelong glances are a great start for eye contact. A direct look can follow. At this point, the guy you are looking at will probably look back.
Instantly lower your eyes and put on an embarrassed smile – you were looking at him and he caught you doing it. You can take this body language / eye contact tip even further and after a few moments look at him again and this time hold your eyes on him for a few seconds. You can also use eye contact to avoid a guy you don’t like simply look at the opposite direction when he attempts to make eye contact.
First impression
Never overlook this important body language top tip your first impression is essential if you want to attract positive attraction. Whenever you are out and ready to meet a guy, make sure to look your best. If you are not happy with what you see in the mirror before you exit your house, don’t even go out! Your pose, your posture, your dress, the way your hair looks they should all be at the maximum level.
This first impression body language tip also refers to the level of confidence you express through the way you walk, the way you look and talk to people and the way you dominate the room you are in.
body language tips regarding your hands
The way you hold and move your hands is also a good way to express your intentions. Here are a few interesting body language tips regarding the use of your hands and hand positions in a social encounter:
- Unclenched hands show openness.
- Playing with your hair or caressing the chair or other objects is a definite sign of interest, an almost sensual act.
- Try picking some fluff of his jacket (even if there is none!)
- Accidentally touch his hands when reaching for something.
- Briefly touch him during conversation to make a point or to laugh at a funny remark. This is a very direct and powerful body language gesture
Posture body language tips
The importance of body posture is essential when dating. You can show interest by facing the guy directly and by slightly leaning forward every now and then. Another great tip that outlines the importance of posture concerns the way you keep your back and shoulders.
A straight back with shoulders slightly brought backwards will expose your chest and is a definite sign of interest. Among other interesting posture and body language tips you might also consider crossing and uncrossing your legs during conversation. Movement of the human body as a form of expression
Since the bodylanguage tips mentioned above refer mainly to pose and posture, you should also consider other subtle body language activities. Facial expressions are among the most suggestive unspoken signals you can give to a guy – although we will detail these in a separate article. Your clothing and general visual appearance are also part of your body language mechanism, so pay special attention to them as well.
The human body can emit dozens of signals unconsciously, but if you learn to master your own body language signals and understand the signals transmitted by guys, you will soon be queen of the dating game.
Craig Rad
http://www.articlesbase.com/dating-articles/how-to-master-your-body-language-and-seduce-men-easier-107228.html