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Archive for May, 2010

body language, facial expression, mannerisms etc. say they are good looking, would people be more likely to seem them as arrogant and rude rather than shy or ‘just quiet’? is it to do with the body language?

They have a powerful presence but they are not overt… everything is controlled and inverted… it’s usually easy to detect them if you put your mind into it

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Time to test your language knowledge…. Body language that is! JapanesePod101.com presents you with the third episode of Japanese body language and Gestures, where you will learn another gesture commonly used in Japan, presented by the lovely native Japanese speaker, Hiroko. Have fun learning about the best ways to communicate without saying anything (okay, we'll teach you a few words while we're at it).

If you liked this video and want to see more, let us know in the comments!

If you learned a lot with this video, stop by our Japanese language learning website and get other language learning content including other great videos like this one, audio podcasts, review materials, blogs, iPhone applications, and more.

http://www.japanesepod101.com

Duration : 1 min 21 sec

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2 Body Language Gestures That Naturally Attract Womenhttp://www.chickmagnet101.com
There are some guys who have natural game when it comes to attracting women. If you understand what makes these guys interesting, then youll discover that its easy to develop the same seductive attitude. In this video, youll discover the reason why women like guys with a natural attitude.

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2 Body Language: The Meanings of Hand Gestureshttp://www.personal-development-coach.net – In this body language video I show many hand gestures and explain what they mean. I hope you will understand people better as a result of this new knowledge.

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2 Non Verbal Communication   Body languagehttp://www.ArtichokePress.com Non-verbal communication or body Language
Shrugs, sighs, eye rolling, sneers, slumped shoulders, ignoring, mumbling are all gestures of non verbal communication. But then, so are smiles, winks, hugs, spontaneous eye contact and a relaxed stance. The problem with trying to read people, and especially your children, is that body language can have multiple meanings, depending on the culture, past experiences and willingness to share emotions and feelings.

One unconscious signal is open to interpretation. However, if the gestures occur in clusters or with similar clues, then it is usually interpreted by others as an attitude.

We attract or repel people with non verbal signals. When I researched and wrote The Left Out Child many of the children who had the most difficulty finding and maintaining friendships had trouble reading other’s body language. By just working on their own body signals, they appeared much more open and approachable to close relationships.

Here is a small list of body movements. Gestures that are “closed” mean that there is something standing in the way of honest sharing. “Open” gestures usually indicate a willingness to build and strengthen a relationship and comfort with the others in the group or discussion.

Closed and Resistant

- Arms folded to protect heart or stomach

- Shoulders bent forward

- Knees pulled up in fetal position

- Glancing at exit

- Rigid or the opposite fidgeting

- Locked ankles

- Hand wringing

- Rocking

- Staring or eyes closed

- Looking at floor

- Head lowered

Open and Affirming

- Palms up

- Open hands

- Spontaneous eye contact

- Feet apart, shoulders back

- Uncrossed legs

- Appropriate touching/patting

- Smile often/ laugh appropriately

- Affirmative head nods

- Body positioned towards other person

Respectful communication

The most effective communication is a mutually respectful and mindful listening attitude on the part of all participants. By learning a few of the subconscious indicators along with the verbal information, we can form stronger relationships with family, friends and co-workers.

© 2007 by Judy H. Wright, Parent Educator, Author and international speaker on family relations. Ph: 406.549.9813 For Free articles and to sign up for the e-zine The Artichoke-finding the heart of the story in the journey of life please go to http://www.ArtichokePress.com You will also find a full listing of books, workshops, and teleclasses. If you would like to ask parenting questions and find solutions check out our blog at http://www.AskAuntieArtichoke.comJudy H. Wright A.K.A. Auntie Artichoke speaks on talking while not saying anything at all. Enjoy!

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2 Body Language: Heidi Montag (Full Song w/ Lyrics) HQLYRICS:
Body language
Oh yeah (yeah, yeah)
Oh yeah (yeah, yeah)
I see what I need to do
Yeah (yeah, yeah)
Oh yeah (yeah, yeah)

I see you watching
Tell me is
Something you like, like
‘Cause I feel you eyes
As they undress me
No, don’t you stop it
Love it with ya bad attitude, tude
‘Cause I’m in the mood
Baby, impress me

Let me follow your lead
Baby, come on control me
Come over take on me
Take me
If you’re in it for real
Go ahead put it on me
I know that you want me
So take me

Read my body language
I do what you like, like
So prove that you’re right, right
(Control me)
Read my body language
I do what you like, like
Come into my spotlight
I got what ya need
(Need, need, need, need, need)
I got what ya need
(Need, need, need, need, need)

Boy, whatcha waiting for?
Come and take control over me, me
Show authority
‘Cause I am looking for a boss type
Someone to fulfill all my needs, needs
So, give me a piece of your guidance

Let me follow your lead
Baby, come on control me
Come over take on me
Take me
If you’re in it for real
Go ahead, put it on me
I know that you want me
So take me

Read my body language
I do what you like, like
So prove that you’re right, right
(Control me)
Read my body language
I do what you like, like
Come into my spotlight
I got what ya need
(Need, need, need, need, need)
I got what ya need
(Need, need, need, need, need)

[Spencer Pratt]
Check out
Chillin’ in the back of the club tonight
Make kin between us only right?
But, keep dancin’ show me your step
And go ‘head speed it up like it
Get in the left lane
Up in the jet plane
Fuel about a mill mill
From Paris to Beverly Hills
We that ill (That’s right)
Lay my eyes on a sassy pearl
Heidi Montag
Yeah, that’s my girl

Read my body language
I do what you like, like
So prove that you’re right, right
(Control me)
Read my body language
I do what you like, like
Come into my spotlight
I got what you need

Read my body language
I do what you like, like
So prove that your right, right
(Control me)
Read my body language
I do what you like, like
Come into my spotlight
I got what ya need
(Need, need, need, need, need)
I got what ya need
(Need, need, need, need, need)
I got what ya need

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Your success in the contemporary world often requires the knowledge of more than one language. As well as learning to write, read and speak mastering a language includes learning to type on the authentic keyboard. Keeping in mind the cost of the language learning the typing skill almost always remains within the area of self-education.

How to reach the goal and not to make mistakes?

STEP 1. Start with Perfection

It is only logical to start with acquiring or reinforcing the touch typing skills in your own language. This will naturally save your time on working out the correct typing habits such as the correct body posture, hand position and fingering. The idea is that these do not change from language to language, after all we use the same keyboard for all the languages and the same principle of touch typing . Thus, we take it for granted that if you have made a decision to learn to type in a foreign language, you have the necessary touch typing skills in your own language.

Find a good typing course, probably the one you were using when you were learning, or any other tutor often downloadable from the Internet. Refresh your typing skills paying special attention to achieving instinctive typing and the feeling of relaxation during the process. Online tests, typing competitions which allow you to practice will perfectly do for this purpose.

STEP 2. Discover the Layout

So, you are well equipped now with solid touch typing skills in your native language. What’s next?

It will be a good idea now to get acquainted with the foreign keyboard, especially if the language uses an alphabet different from the one in your language. First, find the keyboard layout for the target language, for example here:

http://www.microsoft.com/globaldev/reference/keyboards.mspx

Make sure that you know all the letters and how to read them.

Then try to compare the letter layout with the keyboard layout of your native language paying attention to punctuation, special signs like @, etc.

Try to visualize the keyboard in your mind and «write» some simple words in a foreign language with the help of the keyboard (in your mind only).

STEP 3. To Switch or not to Switch?

Install the foreign keyboard layout in your operation system.

In Windows XP: Start -> Control Panel -> Regional and Language Settings -> Text services and input options -> Add

Now you can experiment with simple words somewhere in the word processor. Learn to switch between the languages without too much confusion or haste. For your convenience you can also use your On-screen keyboard and play with it for some time.

For some languages, especially those which use Latin alphabet, the differences in layouts are practically insignificant. For this reason many are tempted to use several languages on one layout. The benefit is obvious: you don’t have to switch between the languages and save time. For example, Italians use the Italian keyboard layout for all the English they have to type.

However, we recommend using the authentic keyboard layout in order to achieve the best possible result. Why?

First, local keyboard layouts are usually specifically tailored to the language. It means that the keyboard layout takes into account the frequency of letters or symbols and arranges them accordingly. The typing speed may often depend on this difference .

Second, if you happen to use the authentic keyboard when you start working/studying abroad, you won’t ever be confused. And imagine the situation when the only keyboard familiar to you is that of your native language, say, Italian. It is OK if you are the only owner of the computer you are going to use there and what if you have to share it with some native speaker? Do you think it will be easy for you to convince him or her that switching between En-It «is no harm»?

So, it’s better to learn fast switching between the languages while you are acquiring the typing skill in a foreign language. It will make your skill universal. And this often matters much in the contemporary world.

STEP 4. Try and Buy

Now the time has come to choose the appropriate touch typing tutorial which will guide you through the intricacies of typing in a foreign language.

If you have tried to type «touch typing tutor» in, say, Google, you know that it returns about 900,000 results. We are afraid it is easy to get lost in such abundance of programs. So, consider a few tips before downloading or making the purchase.

Try to find the course which is specifically designed for foreigners who learn the language. In this case you won’t have problems with understanding complicated grammar structures and will possibly benefit from the offered tasks. A good example for the Russian language is Solo on the Keyboard International which is available both with instructions in English and in Russian.

However, such courses are usually quite few, so an alternative to this is to focus on authentic courses, that is, those the natives use when learn touch typing. Ask your friends or pen-pals which program they used when they learned touch typing.

It is a considerable advantage if the authors give you a chance to try the software first. You can make sure that it really suits your needs well and only then pay money for it.

Don’t hesitate to test the company’s support service, send them a mail with as many questions as you want to ask (whether the fonts will be displayed correctly in your operation system, whether you can use the course with your language level, how the registration procedure works, how the software is licensed, etc.) before making the purchase. It is best if the company supports your native language and doesn’t employ electronic robots to answer your questions. You can count on really valuable tips while learning which may become more important than just a nice interface of the software.

STEP 5. Have fun!

So, the preparation is over now. Be prepared to work hard to achieve a good and prompt result. Do the tasks carefully and motivate yourself if the typing tutor you have chosen doesn’t do that for you. Treat it as a useful game. It is a good idea to pronounce everything your are typing in a foreign language. Just try to be sure you do that correctly. Check the dictionary if it is necessary.

You must be aware that at the beginning stage you are likely to use the keys of the native keyboard layout instead of the required ones. It is only natural, don’t be confused about that. It is just because the new skill is too raw and the two overlap. When you progress to a more advanced stage, everything will take its proper place.

While studying you will sure have to solve the problem of correlation «speed-accuracy.» Don’t rush for high speed, although it can be quite impressive. At the very first stages try to concentrate on accuracy, because you will never find time to come back to it. Coming back to improve speed is easy, it just comes with practice.

A very important role at an intermediate stage is played by sufficient practice. As a rule, typing tutors offer some deal of practice, however, you can feel that you personally need more.

That’s where you can start searching for online tests and additional practice sessions. Just remember that you can’t possibly use the symbols which you haven’t covered in your tutor. Otherwise you will be tempted to peep at the keyboard and that’s where the touch typing method ends.

When you have come to the finish with the course don’t think that this is the end. If you don’t have to type a lot in a foreign language, the skill may degrade fast. There are several methods to keep up your skills fresh.

First, you can keep up correspondence with some pen-pals. All online forms are welcome: chats, messengers, serious forums, interest groups or blogs. If you feel all of them are stupid, find forums and chats devoted to touch typing, ask for advice and tips.

Second, you can find some useful forums where you can spend certain time typing your ideas on the subject you are interested in. Language forums are perfect for this goal.

Here are some good examples.

General Russian forum:

http://1001.vdv.ru/forum/viewforum.php?f=1

English forum for those who study languages themselves:

http://how-to-learn-any-language.com/forum/default.asp

Be sure you know the rules accepted in each forum.

Finally, the best variant is to keep a diary in a foreign language which will help both improve your language and typing skills. http://livejournal.com is a very good solution. You will be able to do lots of typing and to be involved in authentic communication.

Usually both skills – language and typing – go together. So, perfect them simultaneously.

What we don’t recommend doing simultaneously – that’s practicing typing skills in several languages.

Good luck!

Douglas Hunter
http://www.articlesbase.com/software-articles/improve-your-touch-typing-skills-with-a-multilingual-touch-typing-tutor-753063.html

May
10

Body Language

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Body language is a broad term for forms of communication using body movements or gestures instead of, or in addition to, verbal language, sounds, or other forms of communication. It forms part of the category of paralanguage that describes all forms of human communication that are not verbal language. This includes the most subtle of movements that several people are not aware of, including winking and slight movement of the eyebrows. In addition body language can also include the use of facial expressions. Voluntary body language refers to gestures, movement and poses intentionally made by a person (i.e., conscious smiling, hand movements and imitation). This can apply to many types of soundless communication. Usually, movement made with full or partial intention and an understanding of what it communicates can be considered voluntary.

Involuntary body language quite often takes the form of facial expression, and has therefore been recommended as a means to identify the emotions of a person with whom one is communicating although they are normally not aware of it, many people send and receive non-verbal signals all the time. These signals can show what they are truly feeling. The technique of reading people is used regularly. For example, the idea of mirroring body language to put people at ease is generally used in interviews and sets the person being interviewed at ease. Mirroring the body language of someone else shows that they are understood.

However, few people use and understand body language differently, or not at all. Interpreting their gestures and facial expressions (or lack thereof) in the context of normal body language usually leads to misinterpretations and misunderstandings (especially if body language is given priority over spoken language).

Here are some basic smiles: People like warm smiles. Think of a heartfelt warm-fussy, that maybe your favorite one and smile.

Attention Span / Attitude: Other people can notify what type attitude you have by your attention span and if you quickly lose focus of the other person and what is being said, and if your attention span wanders, this shows through and makes you seem bored, disinterested, possibly even uncaring.

Attention Direction: If you sit or stand so that you are blocking another in the party, say someone is behind you; this can be interpreted as thoughtless or rude. So be positive to turn so that everyone is included in the conversation or angle of view, or turn gently, at ease and slowly, while talking, so that everybody is incorporated, recognized and involved in the conversation. Again some recommend the clockwise movement when working a group.

Arms Folded / Legs Crossed:

The folded arms or legs position can be considered as a defensive position. Therefore have arms hang freely or hold a glass of water, a business card or note taking instruments while communicating with someone and be open with open arms. If you need to cross legs, cross at your ankles and not your knees. Sitting tightly folded up says that you are closed to communications.

Head Shaking: If people are nodding their heads while you speak, they are in conformity. If they are shaking their head sideways then difference reigns in their minds.

Knowing how to interpret body language can give you an edge in dealing with people and even understanding them. It will give a great boost to your personal as well as your official and business life. Learning to interpret body language is highly recommended for anyone who wishes to improve their life to a whole new level.

Michael Teo
http://www.articlesbase.com/dating-articles/body-language-110247.html

How can you learn to mask your body language? I hate how obvious it is that I am sensitive and insecure. How can I mask it well?

do not cross your arms over your chest

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Time to test your language knowledge…. Body language that is! JapanesePod101.com presents you with the third episode of Japanese body language and Gestures, where you will learn another gesture commonly used in Japan, presented by the lovely native Japanese speaker, Hiroko. Have fun learning about the best ways to communicate without saying anything (okay, we'll teach you a few words while we're at it).

If you liked this video and want to see more, let us know in the comments!

If you learned a lot with this video, stop by our Japanese language learning website and get other language learning content including other great videos like this one, audio podcasts, review materials, blogs, iPhone applications, and more.

http://www.japanesepod101.com

Duration : 1 min 30 sec

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